19 thoughts on “Keeping it real. The true story behind our family travel photos

    • Yep Anne- it’s important to be honest without over-sharing. I do wonder though, as bloggers become more successful in the monetary sense if they are held up to scrutiny more regarding what they tell.

  1. Hi Danielle, Thanks for addressing the tough issues. I think these are all funny events – except for the poo in the pool – three days in a row! That sounds like deliberate sabotage to me. Even if it was a child with a problem, surely the parents should have withdrawn them from the pool on subsequent days. I feel for the resort concerned.

    • Deliberate sabotage! I must admit I hadn’t thought of that. The pool was very crowded. My kids have never done that in a pool and they always wore swimming nappies before they were toilet trained. Ugh!

  2. Loved this post. I can completely relate. I try to be as honest as possible about our travels but it can be hard. Sometimes my issue is that I don’t want to portray my children in a bad light. A spot might be lovely, but if my child is having a bad day it will be much less enjoyable. But kids are kids and they have bad days.

    • Thanks Erin – isn’t it a pity when those bad days occur on a day you are really, really looking forward to? We tend to travel using our own money (no press trips yet) but I imagine it is trickier when you have been invited somewhere.

  3. Great post. As a fellow family travel blogger I have often struggled to get nice photos of my family (and I am almost never represented in those photos ). I finally bit the bullet and hired Flytographer while in Barbados 2 weeks ago. I also bribed my children to behave (giving them each $10 after the shoot for managing to hold it together for 30 minutes). Honestly, they are some of the best photos I have ever had and it was well worth it. My kids were happy to “work” for the money, and I was happy that I didn’t have to spend 30 minutes hurling threats at them and pretending we were one happy family. 🙂

  4. I absolutely agree that it doesn’t matter where you go, but the kind of memories you make along the way that matters. Every place, including your home town, has something special to see and do. Even families who travel a lot have their share of bad travel days. But, memories from that trip can improve over time and a few good pictures can make all the difference.

    • I think you’re right Allison. Particularly when the bad days are a result of young kids age/development. My seven year old has already gotten to the stage where we can laugh together about some of his outrageous behavior from the past.

  5. I can completely relate to this post (even the pool pooper story!). Travelling with children is often wonderful and sometimes so difficult you wish you’d just stayed at home – I love these stories behind the pictures, thanks for sharing!

    • Oh Katja – you ran into a pool popper too! I’m glad you like the photos. My own feeling is that life with little ones is potentially tough even just going to the supermarket. I tend to find home stress with kids the worse. At least when we are traveling I seem able to keep smiling more despite the challenges.

  6. Great post, and I can totally relate to how there is sometimes a back story to great photos! Love the ‘menstrual flow’ photo story, hilarious! And yes, my daughter survived on bowls of rice for four days when we were in China earlier this year!

    • Hi Marianne – I wondered if I should have posted the menstrual flow photo but that was too much for me! We’ve decided unfortunately that two weeks of traveling at a time are as much as we can do (overseas) at the moment due to our own current picky eater (now it is son 2 that won’t eat) he just gets skinnier and skinnier…

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